Last night, I fell upon the NBC show 'Scrubs' while channel surfing. I admit to having watched this show a few times - though not much - and mostly because I have a 38 year old-woman-with-two-kids crush on Zach Braff.
But last night the show's storyline centered primarily on character Carla Turk's (played by Judy Reyes) plunge into postpartum depression immediately following the birth of her baby.
I gotta tell you - it was gooood. As a woman who suffered (needlessly in my opinion) from postpartum depression after the birth of my most amazing first child, my son, it was incredible to see such a thoughtful and measured portrayal of PPD.
The storyline essentially followed Carla from the moment she came home with her beautiful baby - you know, the time when we mom's are supposed to be blissed out and beautiful, wallowing in o-so-natural mamahood?
Except she wasn't. She was a bawling, sad pile of mess. And her husband, to the writers' credit, was not clueless and stupid or neglectful and frustrated. He kicked it into high gear - he immediately encouraged her to get help, go see a doctor, and continually told her it was normal to have those feelings. When she protested it was just "the weepies", he assured her it seemed more like postpartum depression.
Ahhh, knowledgeable television. I know I seem overly excited about this. But here's the thing. Towards the middle of the show when she was really, really losing it and clearly could not cope, her husband and his colleague - himself with a wife that had suffered through PPD- conspired to get them together so that Carla could hear firsthand that PPD was not only normal but common - from another mother!!
Yea - 'Scrubs' - you did good. You depicted one mother, suffering terribly from PPD & a society that STILL will not ensure that mothers have the resources they need to be healthy mothers, receiving clear, intelligent advice from another mother - a woman who knew exactly what she was talking about, acted kind & supportive and made sure the suffering mama received the help she needed right away.
I know some folks will protest because the last scene portrayed Carla Turk in the blissed- out-on-baby-love stage because of the anti-depressant assistance she finally received. But, again, as a woman who suffered through PPD and also used anti-depressants to get through that stage, I say GO FOR IT. Anything that will make that stage easier, make the mama feel better, help the woman to be able to truly enjoy those first few months of the most mindblowing, outrageous, difficult and heart-bursting time you will ever experience is fine by me.
Here is a blog devoted to gettin' the word out about PPD:
http://postpartumprogress.typepad.com/weblog/
Friday, January 12, 2007
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10 comments:
All through that episode I kept looking at dh and saying "there are antidepressants that are safe for breastfeeding, Hale says so."
I feel very lucky, I only had the mildest of weepies. But I'm so aware of it with my friends and family members having babies.
I'm glad they showed the medication. Too many women are told "fake it 'til you make it" or "take some vitamins" (I loved Jordan's reference to that).
Not a programme I watch I'm afraid - too squeamish to watch anything medical, but I certainly endorse the PPD help from any quarter. It's a 'crying ' shame that it smacks too close to 'mental disease' for the powers that be to take it seriously. Personally I wouldn't care what anyone does to speed the path of recovery, anything to zip to a more comfortable spot more swiftly.
Best wishes
I saw this and thought it was great as well.
Sounds all a bit too good to be true. My experience was bewilderment all round in family and partner. But if a show tries to depict the 'right' way to handle PPD that can't be a bad thing. Maybe the health professionals of the UK could learn a thing or two as well!
I think when television does anything remotely resembling beneficence in its portrayal of women, I'm amazed - well astonished, really.
So, the PPD portrayal wasn't perfect. But it was something. It's unconscionable that issues affecting millions of women in this country are barely mentioned, let alone dealt with in any kind of positive or healthy way on television.
I know it's only television. But I'm tired of turning on the tube and being annoyed, dismayed, angered at every turn.
So, Scrubs made me happy the other night. I'm sure they'll piss me off again, but for a few moments, I was satisfied (not an easy thing to do - satisfy me, that is :))...
over in the uk we had fantastic support when our bairn arrived just over 10 months ago. with a history of depression my wife was identified as a potential pnd/ppd candidate and once he 'popped out' (if you can refer to a 24 hour labour in such terms) the support and monitoring from our midwife and doctor was excellent.
anti-depressants were definitely needed.
when your first child arrives your whole world changes. you have to manage things you would never normally, you have to learn a million and one things about this new wriggling, hungry mass.
anti-depressants meant we (as a couple, PND/PPD is something you both go through) had one less thing to manage, we could worry a little less and enjoy the novel realms of parenthood a little more.
Thanks for the comment, Cole. I completely agree that PPD is something both partners end up muddling through together. My husband was uncompromisingly supportive & advocated so completely for me in my quest to help "fix" the situation.
Having children turns your world upside down and can make life so much more difficult. It also makes life so much deeper and more beautiful and uncontrollable at times.
I'm not surprised that the UK has the kind of post-partum support that truly helps families. But we also had a midwife & doctor. I think the problem was that we had no idea what was going on because I really had no idea what to expect after I had children.
It is amazing that your wife was "identified" as being more likely to experience PPD & got the help she needed. With the birth of my second child I made sure all our providers knew my history as well! It helped immensely!
I was glad to see this episode of Scrubs but was also turned off by Turk's reaction that Carla had thoughts of throwing the baby out the window..that is called postpartum ocd (obsessive compulsive disorder) and can also be treated with a combination of medication and exposure and response prevention. Overall though they did a good job at addressing PPD. I've struggled with this for over 13 months and have taken a multitude of medications to help me overcome it along with months of treatment. It's worth getting healthy and happy for your baby.
Thanks for the ideas/support on this site. are there any UK PPD blogs that you know of? I am just realising (with the help of my mum, who has known my dad through 30 yrs of bi polar) that my feelings are actually not so normal, and fit nicely into all the lists of what PPD is. (On some level I thought everyone felt this awful, and it's kind of amazing that some people don't have such dehabilitating thoughts, processes, anguish). I am kind of kicking along without medication, as many days can feel okay, and I am somehow reluctant to go down that path. x
Pregnancy is one of the most important phases of a woman's life and unfortunately sometimes in this phase a woman gets caught in the web of depression. Though depression during pregnancy is not uncommon, it can be dangerous for both the mother and the unborn baby. http://www.xanax-effects.com/
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